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Je' Von Ikner
THREAD Brotherhood
Je' Von Ikner
THREAD Brotherhood
I spoke to a man this week who stated he knew something needed to change.

He could feel that his current behavior loops weren’t supporting him anymore.

So I asked him what he was FEELING that signaled a shift was needed…

And if he was
Great trip to New Mexico, with the little fella.  Grateful for the experience and the memories created. ❤️
This is one of my favorite photos.

It represents the oath I made when my son was born...
to provide, to protect, to lead.

Becoming a father was the greatest gift.

It didn’t just give me purpose. It inspired a journey. 

It did empowered my e
Most men don’t need another program or more motivation. They don't need more information.
They need true orientation, and accountability that supports aligned action.

They benefit from...

A place to slow down.
Tell the truth.
SIMPLE tools so
Last week, I supported a man in releasing the should energy that was quietly determining how good of a man he thought he was being. Soaking him in subtle shame with each measurement.

Instead, he learned tools to unhook himself from conditioned belie
I’ve learned that old patterns rarely disappear just because you decide you’re done with them.

They creep back in under pressure.
In fact, recently, I shared a reel where that happened for me.

That’s part of the human experience.
Many men try to whiteknuckle their way into new habits. I've been there. 

They rely on willpower and force themselves to override what they’re feeling.

It works for a short time. 

Yet,

Then tension and frustration builds. 
And they end up c
I watched a client see this cleanly today.

He realized that everything he does that doesn’t meet the standard or action, he’s been conditioned to believe a “worthy man” should meet or do, immediately turns into shame, guilt,

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